Category Archives: Dating

I Loooove You…

Posted on October 14, 2013 by bonnevivantelife

Conditions–we place conditions and expectations on our interactions and how we operate interpersonally. We work hard for the expectation of a good salary and kudos. We do a favor expecting and hoping for one returned at a later date. We exchange … Continue reading →

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Enough is Enough

Posted on September 18, 2013 by bonnevivantelife

Enough. I’m on an Enough kick lately…the notion of being Good Enough. Having Enough. Being Enough. It’s all wrapped up in the concepts of Shame and Worthiness. We feel Shame when we believe we’re not Smart Enough, Thin Enough, Competent … Continue reading →

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I Heart You the Mostest

Posted on August 29, 2013 by bonnevivantelife

I’ve been talking about relationships a lot lately with friends in different stages of coupling and uncoupling. Nobody likes a broken heart. Cause it hurts. We talk a lot about finding The One. Or believing there is a Soul Mate. … Continue reading →

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Vows or Wows

Posted on June 13, 2013 by bonnevivantelife

I’ve met someone. OK, I meet a lot of people–even met Bradley Cooper. I will talk to anyone who doesn’t run away from me–Bradley Cooper walked briskly away, thank you very much. But you know what I mean. I’ve met … Continue reading →

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The Lost Art of Dating: A Public Service Announcement

Posted on April 9, 2013 by bonnevivantelife

I’ve posted some heavy topics of late. I believe life is fabulous and fun alongside the sorrows and tears. To that end, let’s lighten things up. I continue to be grateful for all the life lessons and experiences that dating … Continue reading →

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Online Dating Tips For Men (or Why I Haven’t Met Anyone I Like Yet)

Posted on February 12, 2013 by bonnevivantelife

Special Valentine’s Day Edition. Consider this a public service–some helpful tips for men who want to be successful in their online dating ventures, based on my sociological research project that is Online Dating. You’re welcome: 1. Under the category to … Continue reading →

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Dazed and Confused

Posted on January 29, 2013 by bonnevivantelife

As you know, I’m dating and not having the best time with it. I’ve tried to maintain a good attitude through it all. At best, the men have not been all that interesting (hint: a bacon-weave meatloaf is not the … Continue reading →

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Binders Full of Men

Posted on October 17, 2012 by bonnevivantelife

I see Romney’s Binders of Women, and I raise him a Spreadsheet of Men. Sadly, so far none are qualified. I need to reach out to Men’s groups and ask them to compile binders of qualified men. Surely, they must … Continue reading →

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Cupcake Wars

Posted on August 9, 2012 by bonnevivantelife

So this blog is written by two delightfully fabulous women. One of us recently went out with someone, it turns out, whose mother is my age. (True story) Let me just point out here, before you read any further, that … Continue reading →

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